April 2026 - Growth and Container Expansion

Villa Selah

My last update was in December and so much has evolved in a very short window! My husband Ryan came with me to Costa RIca for the first time, and we shared the experience I've had every time. Costa Rica has become so special to me. Beyond the physical beauty of the rain forest, volcanos, waterfalls and beautiful beaches, the incredibly kind community draws me in. The food is delicious and the energy is generous. Costa Ricans take care of each other, their resources, and the nature that sustins life. Simplicity and enough-ness paired together naturally regulates my system. I had always hoped to retire there someday, and at some point during that trip we decided not to wait until retirement to become part of this beautiful community -- not to wait when the future isn't promised.

We returned in February and found a home, and by that I truly mean home. Villa Selah is the name, which translates to 'sacred pause', and it will be that  -- for us and for our Common Thread community.  Villa Selah is located in a small town in the Guanacaste region, nestled in a small town within 12 minutes of 3 different beaches, many restaurants, and within 30 miles of larger communities and more beaches! We'll spend a few weeks a year there as a family, and the rest of the year we want to share it! I have been fortunate to create some incredible relationships and connections to adventures, healers, and delicious cuisine, so I'd like to start offering our home as a base for a self-led curated travel experience. It's a way for me to share in the travel experiences that have shaped my life so deeply many more times than trips I could host with time away from the full-time role that I love. We are going down in May to set things up, and you can sign up here to be the first to know when Villa Selah is ready for visitors!

I Do Love the Word And. AND...

There are so many new things happening -- a couple of upcoming local workshops, I was invited to a podcast, the house purchase and all that entails, I'm taking a full group to Croatia, I'm planning a group trip to Costa Rica next year, and... that's a lot of things! None of them existed in my mind one year ago today, and if I had tried to imagine a container big enough to hold all this in addition to a job that I love, and my family -- my most important thing -- I would have told you there is no way. Add that to all the uncertainty of living in these times, and I don't know how it's all coming together the way it is, but I can see it happening so I know it's real!  

It's coming together in unexpected and lovely ways that I couldn't have arranged if I thought I knew what was best instead of taking each step as it comes. It's not easy, and there are days when it feels like too much. And, then I remember to let whatever I'm feeling be true. My heart rate slows a little, I take a deep breath, I remember how to look for one thing I could do that feels right or warm. And that one thing leads to another right thing. I'm learning (slowly!) to trust when my body or my inner wisdom is trying to tell me something, and when I do amazing things happen. Sometimes the amazing thing is an idea for how to do less without feeling less. Every time it works I'm knocked off my feet. 'm so grateful for the practices that have allowed my container to expand and to allow in all these beautiful opportunities. I am so excited to share them with you all!

Find something that makes you feel warm and then find a way to say yes to it. Big love!

April 2026

A Moment of Pause

Something Lindsay Leahy shared in our first workshop has stayed with me: Knowing something doesn’t mean I have to do something. 

I feel myself take a deep breath when I repeat it.

I’ve avoided knowing certain things in the past — consciously or unconsciously — because I wasn’t ready for action. As the year draws to an end, I'm giving myself permission to be curious about what might be true, without immediately needing to fix or change anything,  and it has created more space and freedom to stay present with how I'm feeling.

This practice is unfolding for me in meaningful ways! If it resonates with you too, I’d love for you to join Jessie Alex and me on January 6th. We’ll explore the idea of stories in an uplifting, grounded way, using simple tools to help you stay connected to yourself and your leadership.

A Moment of Gratitude

This new chapter has been creatively energizing — an opportunity for deep gratitude -- and also humbling. Beginning something new comes with many experiences: moments of excitement, of hope, and also flashes of insecurity and fear.

I’m grateful for the people who have normalized all of this for me. People who love me and remind me that these feelings aren’t warnings — they’re invitations. Another opportunity for curiosity.

I don’t know exactly where this path leads, and maybe I’m not meant to yet. I’m letting that be an open question. 

For now, the journey itself — the curiosity, the unfolding, the “what if” — is enough. MOST of the time anyway (I'm still human too!).

The Holidays: The Most Time of the Year!

Oh the holidays! Glennon Doyle calls it “the most time of the year,” and I have come to appreciate that framing deeply.

There is so much beauty and love in this season. It can be the most wonderful time of the year. And also… the most expectations. The most lights, the most schedules, the most family, and — if you’ve lost someone — the most grief.

So if you find yourself feeling everything all at once, or a little empty or overwhelmed, you’re not doing it wrong. You are feeling it all, and that’s exactly right. 

My hope for all of us is to allow ourselves space for every feeling, and maybe that alone makes room for a little more joy.

And remember this is your holiday too! If you find yourself dreading something, ask what small change might create more space or ease. We have made some meaningful micro changes over the last few years to our holiday season that have allowed more joy in this season, and small changes are the kind that stick. Happy holidays friends!